- by A Feminine Oasis
- September 19, 2023
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Appreciating the Little Things Can Transform Your Life
Gratitude: How Appreciating the Little Things Can Transform Your u Life
Hello beauties, welcome back to the blog!
Have you ever heard the quote “It’s a bad day, not a bad life” and rolled your eyes so hard they almost fell out onto the floor? I sure have!
You know those days when it feels like you’re starring in your own personal drama, complete with plot twists and cliffhangers that leave you questioning everything?
How can you possibly find a positive thought amidst all that’s going on, much less find happiness? Let’s find out…
Putting Gratitude to Work: From Overwhelmed to Inner Calm
Daily Practice:
You know how they say practice makes perfect? Well, I’m not aiming for perfection, just a bit more peace in my day.
Each morning, even before getting out of bed, I list 3 things that I’m grateful for, I call it jump starting my gratitude engine.
It’s like a mental checklist that fortifies my mind with reminders of how many good things I already have, in order to stay grounded when life throws a curveball at me.
Shifting Perspective:
Ever had those mornings where every slow driver feels like a personal attack on your punctuality? Guilty as charged!
But one day, while venting to my mom about it, she flipped the script. She suggested that maybe, just maybe, those cautious drivers were actually protecting me from potential accidents up ahead, and that’s something to be thankful for.
At first, I brushed it off. But then, I decided to give it a try. Instead of stewing in frustration, I took a deep breath and thought, “Maybe I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be.” And you know what? Surprisingly so to me, it worked!
That simple shift in perspective, from annoyance to grateful, intentionally choosing to see a slow driver as a ‘guardian’ of sorts, has made all the difference in turning around many potentially unnecessarily stressful mornings.
Mindful Reflection:
Gratitude Journaling has been an excellent way for me to reflect and unwind, particularly during stressful moments.
Previously, after a hard day, finding the silver lining seemed almost impossible.
But now, even in the thick of things, weighed down by adversity, I intentiaonlly take a moment to reflect: “What do I still have to be grateful for?”
This seemingly straightforward practice has proven extremely valuable, grounding me in the hopeful belief that, “I’m having a bad day, not a bad life!”